Speaking skills are an important method of interpersonal communication and an art of living. Many specific problems between everyone are suitable to be solved through conversation, so everyone should master certain speaking skills, master the art of conversation, and avoid some incorrect speaking forms.

How to communicate conversation skills with people?

Speaking Skills 1. The real truth is that you can get a lot more out of it than just a few hours of communication.

Speaking skills 2. Speak clearly about big things and important things to avoid making mistakes in the future.

Speaking skills 3. For some unimportant things, you can talk about it humorously, which often achieves good results. Small things are resolved, the relationship is drawn closer, people feel close, easy to contact, often a person in life. People, talk about small things and get big things, it was easy to do, but if the situation is serious, this is the wrong way of communication.

Speaking Skills 4. If you are unsure about something, pay attention to what you say.

Talking skills 5. Don't call things you can't do garbage, because you owe your own credit after saying garbage.

Speaking skills 6. Don't say anything harmful to yourself, don't say anything harmful to yourself, and don't say anything to anyone, no matter how good a friend you are. Because it's a character issue.

Speaking skills 7. Flexible, the way of talking should change with the object of the conversation. The purpose of the conversation and the object of the conversation are different, and the way of the conversation should also be different. In practice, we have the flexibility to take a conversational approach. One is the type of inquiring communication. The key to this method is to master the skills of "asking", and pay attention to eliminating the other party's doubts in the process of asking. Some may ask directly, others politely.

Speaking skills 8. Find the key. Some people can criticize in a straightforward way, while others need to be encouraged to change each other. Critics should first affirm their own achievements, and try to guide the criticized to understand their own shortcomings and mistakes, so that they can recognize their own problems.

In order for the conversation to be successful, the following nine incorrect forms of conversation should be avoided:

1. Avoid interrupting other people’s thoughts by interrupting their conversations or taking over their conversations.

2. Avoid using explanations and generalizations that make it difficult for the other party to understand your intentions.

3. Avoid forcing another person to repeat the topic of conversation because of your own distraction.

4. Avoid asking questions like bullets, so that the other party has nothing to say; avoid talking about the other party's problems, say nothing, and don't know what to say.

5. Avoid arbitrarily explaining a phenomenon and asserting self-righteously to show that he is an expert.

6. Avoid the method of finding the subject with interest. If you ask strangers what they are interested in and start with their interests, the conversation can go well. What everyone is interested in is always the most familiar and the most talkative.

7. Avoid inappropriate emphasis on irrelevant but irrelevant details, which can be annoying.

8. Avoid indifferently escalating the topic to your own when others are interested in the topic.

9. Avoid pretending that a correct point of view or appropriate advice is wrong, which makes the other person suspicious of you and makes it difficult to build mutual trust.