3 typical reverse psychology

2022-05-26

I believe that everyone has heard of rebellious psychology. Rebellious psychology refers to people's reaction to external persuasion and psychological resistance. It is a common psychological phenomenon in the process of adapting to the environment. The most common is during adolescence, when parents say that you should not play all the time, you should study hard, but children often choose not to listen, which is rebellious. There are three main types of typical rebellious psychology.

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Type 1: Inverse Reverse

Transboundary reversal is the body's escape response to any stimuli, including stimuli that bring great satisfaction to the individual. This type of psychology will appear when the outside world keeps repeating the same stimulus, and the limit that the recipient of the stimulus can withstand the stimulus will be exceeded. For example: Many parents have nagging problems. They will always repeat the same problem, and in the end, the problem will not only be unsolved, but will also cause the child's rebellious psychology, and even more do not want to listen to the parents' opinions. Once the limit is exceeded, it is a kind of stress or even harm to the individual, and this type of rebellious individual will take measures to escape the stimulus.

Type 2: Self-worth Protection Reverse

People have a special meaning for self-worth and dignity. When external persuasion or influence threatens self-worth, people will consciously or unintentionally protect their self-worth and react to external influences. This type of rebellion often occurs when others attack our self-worth or personality. For example: when a child does something wrong, sometimes parents exaggerate the consequences. For example, they'll say, if you can't even handle such a small thing, how can you do anything else? This type of speech is attacking the child's self-esteem and will cause a rebellious psychology of self-worth protection. Parents criticize or deny their children from an authoritative standpoint without saving face. Because of their self-worth protection, their children may act in the opposite direction and deliberately make trouble with their parents to show their dignity and strength. To be effective in persuading others, you must save face and maintain their worth and dignity.

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Type 3: Forbidden Fruit Reverse

The reversal of the forbidden fruit refers to the fact that prohibitions without sufficient reasons will stimulate people's stronger desire to explore. The more forbidden things, the more people do them. This is the reversal of the forbidden fruit. This genre has many manifestations in terms of sex. From childhood to adulthood, parents do not tell their children excessive knowledge about sex. But the child will be full of curiosity, and will want to try some activities with intimate behavior. Exploring the unknown is a basic human need. If something is simply forbidden without a good reason, then that thing has a particular appeal to the individual. For example, the more banned some movies and books are, the more popular they become, which reflects the huge role of the forbidden fruit.

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But don't think that only adolescent children will have rebellious psychology. After we pass adolescence, our rebellious psychology will still exist. If you want to overcome your own or others' rebellious psychology, you must first understand the main types of rebellion. Secondly, you can improve your cultural accomplishment and wide-ranging knowledge. A person with extensive knowledge of life can more easily recognize the absurdity of rebellious psychology, and thus look at problems with a more scientific and tolerant way of thinking.