Under normal circumstances, people will talk about marriage when they reach the marriageable age, but for unmarried women in their 30s, emotional marriage will become a knot in their hearts. Will they be lonely if they don't get married? Do they really want to get married? No, do you want to know what the psychology of a 30-year-old unmarried woman is afraid of? Then look down.

1. Fear of "excessive concern" from relatives and friends

It seems normal for women to get married at the right age. But once a woman is older, especially if she is over 30 years old and not married, she may be abnormal in the eyes of outsiders. In fact, as a woman, everyone longs for a warm home, a considerate husband, and a happy relationship. marriage. So when everyone of the same age is married, he becomes the problem in everyone's eyes. At this time, mothers are anxious, relatives are anxious, and friends are anxious. At this time, the sympathy and concern in the eyes of women are invisible pressures for them, and they are afraid of their inquiries. But the more they disappear, the more these women think that they are withdrawn and difficult to get along with, or that they are closing themselves in, such a vicious circle. At the age of 30, it has become a knot of unmarried women, and the kind concern and inquiries of relatives and friends are the only ones who are afraid of seeing them. reason!

2. Fear that people "excessively" study themselves

A 30-year-old unmarried woman must have the ability to bear it mentally. If she is so old and not married, is there a physical or psychological problem? This is most people's prejudice against unmarried women in their 30s. If you are an ugly woman, others will say that you are not married because she is too ugly to attract men; if it is a beautiful woman, others will say that you have high vision or emotional frustration. So people will study unmarried women from time to time, why they haven't married yet, which is more afraid of unmarried women in their 30s.

3. Afraid of my mother forcing myself to go on a blind date

A 30-year-old unmarried woman is most worried about her mother, which is an anxiety from the bottom of her heart. She'll look for a man, a colleague's child, a friend's son while she's in a hurry. No matter how old the other party is, regardless of the other party's character and knowledge, he just wants to introduce his daughter, so he has daily persuasion and lobbying. But the result of this kind of blind date is often a failure, and it will also add a bit of inferiority and hesitation to my heart.

4. Afraid to attend the birthday party of classmates children

Many unmarried women in their 30s are career-oriented women, but no matter how successful they are in their careers, it is difficult to cover up their loneliness when they are alone. Whenever they see their peers holding their children happy and intoxicated, they will want to be a mother who cares about and loves the baby. Women also understand: a stable job, a happy family, and a healthy baby are what they want, and the feeling of being emotionally touching when attending a classmate's child's birthday party makes them even more worried and afraid.

5. Fear of the vigilant eyes of female friends

"Unmarried women are the prey in the eyes of married men" was once rumored that a woman living alone, especially a mature, attractive and successful unmarried woman, has a considerable temptation for many men. Therefore, no matter where they appear, they will attract two kinds of eyes: appreciation and defense. Women are afraid of their best sister's defensive eyes, but the kind of vigilance in their eyes that "if they don't have a partner, they will definitely be interested in their partner" will make them very embarrassed. Therefore, under normal circumstances, women do not participate in the activities of people in the circle because they do not want to arouse their vigilant eyes and arouse their suspicion. This is the fear of unmarried women's vision.