In our life, we all have such a type of men. The standard for finding a partner is to be like his mother. This kind of man actually has an "Oedipus complex". This is actually a normal psychology of some men. Usually, when this man is bullied as a child, the first thing that comes to his mind is to ask his mother for help. The characteristic of children is that they think that the arms of their mothers are the safest. When these become habits, when men meet Kun An as adults, they also hope to find a hug that misses their mothers. They lack a sense of security. Therefore, when choosing an object, it will unconsciously tend to be like a mother's wife. So what are the specific characteristics of such men with "Oedipus complex"?

1. Feature 1: Too obedient to mother

The main characteristic of a man with an Oedipus complex is that he usually listens to his mother's words. When he does anything, he must ask his mother for instructions first, and then he dares to do it after his mother agrees. Main manifestations: Excessive fondness and attachment to one's own mother. Therefore, they regard marriage as a continuation of their attachment to their mother, and their wives should take care of themselves like their mothers. The whole spiritual world is in a state of being unable to separate from the mother, which is what we call "weaning". Of course, the "weaning" here is not the milk, but the second is to cut off the relationship with the mother. Therefore, such a man usually also disagrees with his wife because he is too obedient to his mother.

2. Feature 2: Often conflicts with his wife

The characteristics of a man with a serious Oedipus complex are that he will often have conflicts with his wife, and the relationship will not be very good, because even if the wife does a good job and looks like a mother, her status in a man's heart and a real mother are irreplaceable. Because no matter what the mother does, the man will think it is right, and the man will speak to his mother. If there is a conflict between the wife and the mother, the wife cannot speak ill of the mother, and if the man hears it, he will argue with his wife, quarrel, and even develop to the point where the relationship between the husband and wife breaks down and divorce.

3. Feature 3: Most men with serious Oedipus complex have no opinion

These types of men are usually not brave enough, independent enough, independent, and more content with the status quo. Because of his special dependence on his mother, his thinking habits, speech and behavior are somewhat similar to his mother's. Men with these characteristics are generally difficult to adapt to complex interpersonal relationships when they enter society. Everything they do is to make their mothers happy, and sometimes they are also very tired. If it affects family harmony, it is recommended to see a psychiatrist. In fact, the Oedipus complex exists in every man, but the severity of the plot and the degree of characteristics are different. If you deal with the various conflicts in the family well, you will have a harmonious and happy family life.

4. Feature 4: Men with Oedipus complex are more vulnerable and more willing to talk

From the perspective of the entire process of human evolution, the tasks assigned to men by the real society are too heavy, strong, and brave. These hard words form the pronouns of men. Society also needs men to shoulder a lot of responsibilities. Men must not cry easily. Therefore, men bear a lot of psychological pressure to varying degrees. They have anxiety and panic in their hearts, but they cannot show it. At this time, men talk to their wives at home, act like a spoiled child, ask for help, and want to get her care and comfort like a child. Therefore, many men in today's society will find women older than themselves as wives.