What is the psychology of a man with a heart?
Psychology believes that many men like to keep making new friends, and it is the most unacceptable point for women to be distracted. There are also physiological reasons. It seems that it seems to be related to the morality of men on the surface, but there are other reasons for this. What is the psychology of a man with a heart? Let's take a look below.
1. The psychology of men's love hormone addiction
Psychologists have found through research that there is a special group of people who will be "addicted" to love hormones such as dopamine and oxytocin. These people, once the level of hormones such as oxytocin in the body subsides, will find another new love to get the stimulus again, so as to enjoy the extreme pleasure and excitement brought by the high secretion of hormones. This is the addictive mentality of a man who loves the new and hates the old.
2. Men's desire to conquer and protect psychology
Due to the role of male hormones, men are naturally eager to conquer others and protect the weak. If a man is "protected" by a woman, then the man's subconscious wants to break free at all times. Mature men are eager to be strong and dislike protecting themselves. Conquering new girls and being admired by women can give men great psychological satisfaction from being strong. Usually such men are more "flowery", but on the other hand, their desire to protect and conquer is also stronger.
3. Men's desire to be noticed by the public
In many psychological consultations, it is found that "tiger fathers" who do not know how to parent-child education cultivate "dog children". Because good fathers are too good, they will have higher expectations for their sons, but they generally do not praise their children easily. In this way, the child will lose his father's most important person's self-evaluation when he is a child, which will make the child's inner self-worth feel very low, no matter how bright it is in the eyes of outsiders. People with a low sense of self-worth, because it is difficult to obtain a sense of achievement through normal channels, are likely to use other sideways ways. Therefore, it will get recognition and attention from women, and I hope that the worship of many women is a psychology that a man who cares about does not count as a woman.
4. Men's psychology that the preservation period of love is very short
Psychological research has found that the preservation period of love is only 18 months. When a man has no feelings, he will naturally fall in love with others. Neuroendocrinology found that love between men and women is stimulated by three chemicals in the brain, dopamine, phenethylamine and oxytocin. When a man and a woman fall in love for the first time, these three chemicals are shot out at the same time, which makes the heart beat faster, the palms sweat, the passion is high, the joy is extremely high, and the desire to stop is unstoppable. However, after a period of time, the phenomenon of rapid heartbeat and sweaty palms will no longer appear. Moreover, the time to look at each other will be less than before; the strength of hug will be less than before. Why is this? Because with the passage of time, the human body will gradually produce an antibody against these three kinds of chemical substances in the body; this is the so-called "flower heart", after a period of time, these three kinds of chemical substances The role of love will disappear, and the freshness of men to women will gradually disappear, so the man who is fascinated thinks that love is very short-lived.
5. Psychological problems of men's original family
On the surface, a man with a heart seems to be related to morality, but if you look into the reasons for his behavior, you will find that it is related to his supporters in the original ecological family, the attitudes, emotions and behaviors of his parents. If the father who was in the original family when he was a child was always busy and messed around with flowers, then there is a high probability that the children will also be distracted when they grow up. Every action of a parent will subtly affect the child.