4 Communication Skills in a Relationship
2022-05-19
Many people in love have more or less such questions: "Why does my boyfriend do this?" "What does he mean by that?"
"Is he unhappy? Did I do it? What's wrong?" In fact, many people "rely on feeling" in love or marriage, fall in love by feeling, and then live a married life by feeling. Many people will encounter situations where they do not know why the other party is like this, feel that the other party is inexplicable, and there will be some problems in their love life that they do not know the reason for and do not know how to solve. Many people don't know how to express it, which leads to poor communication in their love relationship, which is clearly reflected in many love counseling cases; : "Bless you and wish you a happy life in the future". This kind of obscure expression is not uncommon in our love life, so here I share with you love communication skills and specific ways to improve it.
1. Speak well
Chatting is an essential thing during a relationship and is done every day. It's actually not a big deal, but people always maintain their own habits in the process of communicating in a relationship, and it is inevitable that they will ignore the details of what they say. Why do some people have a hard time finding someone they can talk to anytime, anywhere? This is because everyone has their own way of getting along in a relationship and experiences and understands things differently. Therefore, in the process of love communication, they may have different views on the same thing, plus the "time difference" that everyone feels, it is easy to have nothing to say together. So saying good things plays a very important role in a relationship, so how can you say good things? Attitude and listening are the keys to being in a relationship. In fact, it is very simple to operate. The content of the conversation is organized and can be communicated. Listen carefully to what the other person has to say and respond promptly. When the other party feels distressed and wants to talk, you must learn to listen and wait patiently; if the other party suddenly has a whim, can't sleep in the middle of the night, and wants to communicate with you, don't be impatient, understand and listen patiently, and the relationship can develop better.
2. Strengthen mutual communication
Many couples have been in love for a long time, and they will feel "nothing to say", unlike when they first started dating, there is always something to say. This is mainly because they are still in the unknown stage at the beginning, so many times they establish a relationship through chat, and naturally there will be endless things to say. Over time, the understanding of each other began to become more thorough. At this time, the couple has reached a certain level of familiarity, and can even make estimates of each other's thoughts and behaviors. The topics that can be talked about with each other are gradually reduced, and communication is slowly starting to become boring. A love life can easily turn into a backwater. In order to enhance mutual communication, you need to constantly improve yourself, broaden your horizons, or find common hobbies for both parties, continue to enrich your experience, make continuous progress, and increase the topics of communication, thereby improving the quality of communication. Keep your relationship fresh and your relationship will develop better.
3. Pay attention to the way of expression
When you think about it, a lot of the arguments in a relationship are completely unnecessary. Sometimes it's just because of the other person's expression when talking, and the mood becomes inexplicably worse; sometimes it's just a little conflict, but with quarrels, it becomes a big problem. Therefore, in the process of communication in a relationship, the way of expression is very important. Daily communication in love should be as active as possible, so as to make communication smoother.
Here are three small ways to improve communication in love during the expression process, for your reference:
First of all, you must learn to express yourself positively in love. Don't always let the other person guess what you think. If in love, you always have to rely on guesswork, it will really make the other party feel tired of falling in love with you;
Secondly, you must learn to control your emotions in love, and don't use sarcastic jokes to prove your sense of humor. This is indeed a mistake many people make. The main reason is that you can't express your dissatisfaction directly. You will ridicule on the side and feel that the other party's emotions are not right, and immediately change your mind and say a joke, but this method has no other substantial help for the development of love, and will only make the other party feel wrong. feel bad, have bad comments about you;
The last point, grasping it well in love can definitely make others feel good about you, just don’t interrupt what others are saying, don’t underestimate this, as someone who has personal experience, you can clearly say that unfamiliar people are okay , If male friends always interrupt themselves when they are talking, they will really feel powerless and sad after a long time, so I especially remind everyone to pay attention to this when they are in love, so as not to make the other party feel wronged and powerless because of such details.
4. Arguing is an art
1. Speak well
Chatting is an essential thing during a relationship and is done every day. It's actually not a big deal, but people always maintain their own habits in the process of communicating in a relationship, and it is inevitable that they will ignore the details of what they say. Why do some people have a hard time finding someone they can talk to anytime, anywhere? This is because everyone has their own way of getting along in a relationship and experiences and understands things differently. Therefore, in the process of love communication, they may have different views on the same thing, plus the "time difference" that everyone feels, it is easy to have nothing to say together. So saying good things plays a very important role in a relationship, so how can you say good things? Attitude and listening are the keys to being in a relationship. In fact, it is very simple to operate. The content of the conversation is organized and can be communicated. Listen carefully to what the other person has to say and respond promptly. When the other party feels distressed and wants to talk, you must learn to listen and wait patiently; if the other party suddenly has a whim, can't sleep in the middle of the night, and wants to communicate with you, don't be impatient, understand and listen patiently, and the relationship can develop better.
2. Strengthen mutual communication
Many couples have been in love for a long time, and they will feel "nothing to say", unlike when they first started dating, there is always something to say. This is mainly because they are still in the unknown stage at the beginning, so many times they establish a relationship through chat, and naturally there will be endless things to say. Over time, the understanding of each other began to become more thorough. At this time, the couple has reached a certain level of familiarity, and can even make estimates of each other's thoughts and behaviors. The topics that can be talked about with each other are gradually reduced, and communication is slowly starting to become boring. A love life can easily turn into a backwater. In order to enhance mutual communication, you need to constantly improve yourself, broaden your horizons, or find common hobbies for both parties, continue to enrich your experience, make continuous progress, and increase the topics of communication, thereby improving the quality of communication. Keep your relationship fresh and your relationship will develop better.
3. Pay attention to the way of expression
When you think about it, a lot of the arguments in a relationship are completely unnecessary. Sometimes it's just because of the other person's expression when talking, and the mood becomes inexplicably worse; sometimes it's just a little conflict, but with quarrels, it becomes a big problem. Therefore, in the process of communication in a relationship, the way of expression is very important. Daily communication in love should be as active as possible, so as to make communication smoother.
Here are three small ways to improve communication in love during the expression process, for your reference:
First of all, you must learn to express yourself positively in love. Don't always let the other person guess what you think. If in love, you always have to rely on guesswork, it will really make the other party feel tired of falling in love with you;
Secondly, you must learn to control your emotions in love, and don't use sarcastic jokes to prove your sense of humor. This is indeed a mistake many people make. The main reason is that you can't express your dissatisfaction directly. You will ridicule on the side and feel that the other party's emotions are not right, and immediately change your mind and say a joke, but this method has no other substantial help for the development of love, and will only make the other party feel wrong. feel bad, have bad comments about you;
The last point, grasping it well in love can definitely make others feel good about you, just don’t interrupt what others are saying, don’t underestimate this, as someone who has personal experience, you can clearly say that unfamiliar people are okay , If male friends always interrupt themselves when they are talking, they will really feel powerless and sad after a long time, so I especially remind everyone to pay attention to this when they are in love, so as not to make the other party feel wronged and powerless because of such details.
4. Arguing is an art
