For some people, how to communicate with strangers is a very important matter. Many people are afraid to talk to strangers because they are afraid of leaving a bad impression on others. After a long time, they are even worse at communicating with others. Vicious circle, unable to meet new friends and expand interpersonal relationships, so in order to improve this situation, summed up a few ways to improve communication with strangers.

1. Be bold when communicating, take the initiative to communicate with strangers, it is better to say it than not to say it, and you will not be afraid if you communicate a few times.

When communication is tense, try to relax yourself. Take a deep breath quietly, calm your breath, and add a little force when you exhale, so that your heart will be at ease. Laughter has a great effect on relieving tension throughout the body. Smiling can regulate breathing, and it can also free the mind to focus on speaking.

Practice some good topics regularly. Usually pay attention to observing other people's topics, understand attractive topics and unattractive topics, consciously practice talking about things that can arouse other people's interest when communicating with strangers, and avoid topics that cause adverse effects on communication.

Train to avoid bad topics. You should avoid things that you don’t fully understand. Saying things you don’t fully understand when communicating will not only bring no benefit to others, but will leave a wrong and bad impression on them. It's even more awkward when someone asks you questions about these things and you can't answer them. Also avoid topics you are not interested in when communicating, if you are not interested how can you expect the other person to be excited about your topic.

Subject-enriched training. When there is a topic in communication, there must be content, and the content comes from life, from your observations and feelings about life. Such people are always passionate about the people and things around them.

2. Read more books, participate in outdoor activities more, communicate with people more, your character will naturally become cheerful and enrich your experience

When communicating with strangers, first be polite (in a different tone from friends at first), first understand the character of the other person, and then know how to communicate with the other person (in what way). First see if this person is of the same type as you (thinking style, social concepts, values, etc.), if this person is similar to you, it is easy to get along with, because everyone has the same ideas, you can also find some Optimistic people make friends. Getting along with people requires sincerity, friendliness and initiative, and you need to take the initiative to communicate with others!

If the exchange of ideas is lacking, listening to others is a good way to communicate. Listen carefully and don't stop and forget.

When looking for topics to communicate with people, first learn to be an audience, listen to lectures more, what lecture content you like, and go to the library or university campus to have lecture materials; in the process of communicating with friends and elders, listen more to others, so that you can collect information every day. Expressed materials, you can also learn other people's language skills. Can do live audience, debate, host and other competitions, and learn other people's language expressions. When a person listens to a lot of things, the things in his mind will be enriched. Naturally, his language improves in rhetoric, logic, and expressive tone as he communicates with others. Language is a bridge of communication, if you can express your language well, you can communicate well, and you can get things done. If you don't know what to say, you must first learn to find a topic. The above method will work for you. People need to understand each other, the most important thing is to communicate more, exchange ideas, care and help each other in language and behavior, and treat each other sincerely. The relationship between friends depends on sincerity, trust, tolerance, kindness, mutual care and mutual support.

3. Allow yourself to be humorous

When telling an interesting story, don't be in a hurry to show results, be calm, show the power of humor with a unique tone and dramatic plot, and give the audience a sense of suspense before the most crucial sentence is said.

When you tell a joke, every pause, every peculiar intonation, every corresponding expression, gesture, and body movement should contribute to the power of humor. Emphasize important words and use voice communication skills such as stress and pause to promote the audience's thinking and deepen the audience's impression.

Humorous language must be used according to specific objects, specific situations and specific contexts, and words and sentences cannot be out of place.

Don't laugh out loud when telling jokes, it's the least popular. After each speech, it is best to inspire a heartfelt smile from the audience.

4. Self-confidence is very important, believe in yourself, let go of your mind, do things with a normal heart, make yourself optimistic, smile more, smile makes you feel good

Just entering a new environment also requires a process of adaptation. Meet new people and make new friendships along the way. Don't be shy, don't be afraid to say the wrong thing, be genuinely friends with them, and people will happily accept you.